My journey on being a stay-at-home Mum and loving wife away from my family and friends. This is my avenue to remind myself of our daily adventures and keep those who love Josiah updated on his latest adventure.
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Ho, ho, hooooyaa....
Thursday, December 10, 2009
35 months old: My backside is number 3 and other tales
"My backside is number three"
Don't know the background of where he got this but he told me this when we were running around in circles. I did ask him what number was MY backside and apparently it is also number three. Hmm, go figure...
"I don't like it"
Applies to just about everything that is different from the norm. Trying to get him to put on new shoes/jacket/hat/watch different episodes of his favourite shows will be met with a resounding "I don't like it" response which if no action taken on our part to retain the 'normal' bit of his life will result in a meltdown. So frustrating. I am hoping it is just a toddler phase and refuse to believe that he might just be a very confident kid who knows what he wants ALL. THE. TIME!!!!!
"Stop talking, say bye-bye"
Hahahaha, this is him getting upset when Shaun and I are talking to anyone on Skype. He absolutely hates it and will make it clear to the other party that he wants our attention. It is really rude and I have spoken to him about it but it still occurs and I admit I sometimes bribe him so I can say hi to my parents or in-laws!
"1,2,3,4....10. Ready or not here I come"
Josiah's version of hide-and-seek is him asking you to stand at HIS chosen corner and then him pretending he cannot find you. If you actually hide then he is upset and tells you to stay at his chosen spot. Obviously this game is only played about 3 times max before I get bored. I do not have patience for these sort of games.
"Josiah farts"
Woohoo, and he does quite a fair bit of farting and is quite proud about it. He jumps around after that and says, "What's that noise" Too much MAN-ness for me....yucks....
"I love it"
Normally referring to his favourite food which at this time is yogurt, ice cream and cake. Yes, he is my son and he has a sweet tooth just like me. Shaun enjoys watching the both of us literally fight for a piece of cake. Depending if we have guest or not - I will really fight with Josiah for my share of cake. But if there is a guest around, I'd grudgingly let him gobble up my dessert and put on a sad pout for Shaun who alway sides with Josiah on this matter. See these men just gang up on me all the time.....
"I am too busy...with (insert toy here)"
Apparently Josiah is too busy playing with his cars/trains/aeroplanes to even go out to meet Daddy for dinner. So much for loving your parents - we are obviously only a substitute for anything with wheels or can fly. Boo hoo.
And here is my sweetie pie in his Thomas top which I got for a bargain 50p!!
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Our first christmas tree
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Winter Wonderland 2009
Monday, November 23, 2009
And the answer is...
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Mystery of the missing....socks!
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Wordless Wednesday
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
I want a broom??
Friday, November 6, 2009
Alone time.....finally!
For all those with young children, this moment is a moment to be celebrated and savoured. Josiah has been going to nursery for 3 mornings for three weeks now and this is the first time I have felt relaxed enough to come home. Before, I was always hanging around the nursery, you know, in case they had to ring me to get him....etc. I was also frequently leaving the nursery feeling upset because he is crying so hard when I leave but now, he is happy and smiling when I pick him up. So I know the crying bit in the mornings are just his little way of saying,"Hey, I want you to be here with me" which is perfectly normal seeing that we have NEVER been apart like this.
Anyhow, with the morning runs, even when it is raining, I have managed to catch myself a cold. So this morning, I was thinking about not sending him but then this incident happened and I knew that it was going to be one of those "Let's Challenge Mummy's Patience Day" so opted to send him off albeit later than usual.
Our morning started as usual and I gave him a choice of cereal or eggs (half boiled). He was excited about the eggs as I always let him put it in the egg container and he hasn't had eggs for some time. After waiting for it to cook, I then proceeded to put soya sauce on it and then he said he did not want it. I tried to coax him and reason with him but he was adamant. So I ate the egg and was thinking of using the other egg for lunch or something. Then, he said he wanted the egg....and I told him that he had better eat the egg this time or else I would put him in timeout corner.
He ate one spoon and told me, "I go stand in the corner."
Grrrr......now I have the leftover egg and one hungry boy to deal with.
He did not even cry whilst standing in the corner and then requested for cereal!!!
Although it is weird to be home without him, I could definately get used to this. After nearly three years, I am happy for some time alone....
...to have a relaxing breakfast
...to read my papers on the actual day it arrives and not three days later
...to cook dinner at one go without having to say,"Wait a minute, Mummy is cooking" like 20 times
...to have a shower uninterrupted
...to play the piano and actually hear what I am playing amidst Josiah's banging
...and finally just to be able to poo like a normal person without rushing it or having someone try to sit on my lap or worse play with the flush
Life is good.
:)
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Mummy is naughty...so am I
I rang my friend for advise but decided not to go with the "little monk" look and have opted to wait for it to grow and hopefully forget about this whole incident.
Sometimes, even mummies are naughty.
Here is my little naughty boy, caught in the act of counting my kitchen drawers !!.....
Saturday, October 24, 2009
33 months old...I am losing count
Thursday, September 17, 2009
When I grow up, I want to be a...
Are you ready, Elmo?
Elmo, say cheese...Okay, this shot looks good....
The finished photos...
A closer shot....perfect :)
Monday, September 14, 2009
When will I see you again?
Happier times - group photo in Bruge, Belgium
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Potty Training : A New Potty
Cupcake anyone?
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Potty time! Day 2 & 3
Day 3 started out well, I had a nice talk to him telling him about how he will get a lollipop if he manages to wee in the potty. I managed to get Josiah to sit for really long time on his potty but guess what? He just did not have to wee at all. From 9am till 1pm he was dry and just as I put him on his highchair for lunch, the dam broke and it was like Niagaria Falls at the dining table. Out came the Dettol again. It is nearly 4pm now and he has just sat on the potty for 30 minutes and not one drop. Frustrated at this, I put on his nappy and got down to the laptop. It is super tiring looking at his little "koo koo" for so many hours hoping to catch a little sign that he is about to wee. I have never looked at it for so long before. Ever. The problem is that he does not drink a lot of water and he has never been a fan of water, getting his water from milk and soups only. I have to make sure he has more water to drink tomorrow.
Sunday, July 26, 2009
Toddlerhood: The Next Frontier
- Able to sing Twinkle, twinkle, ABC song, Incy Wincy Spider, Little Einstein song
- Able to count from 1 to 12
- Able to identify most colours
- Able to identify most alphabets
- Able to read a few words like dog, cat, duck, frog, horse, pig, chicken, Josiah, Mommy, Daddy, Thomas, Percy, star, car, Harold, James.
- Able to do some simple puzzles
- Able to paint and draw and colour quite well
- Not able to walk down steps on his own, he can walk up with help
- Not able to jump or climb too well
- Not able to feed himself with a spoon properly
- Not able to remove his socks or shoes on his own
- Not able to eat pasta, pizza, most veggies and fruits
- Not potty trained
Does he miss his baby stuff too?
Josiah in Prague
Saturday, July 25, 2009
Potty time! Day 1
At the moment, Josiah gets a change of diaper in the morning after he poos. Then another one in late afternoon and one before sleep. No fuss, no mess....I can go out with him the whole day without having to keep track of time because I know he has a diaper on. Without the diaper, the onus is on the parent to remind the child if he/she wants to go potty. Then parent (usually the mother) will have to find toilet and bring child to toilet quickly. How stressful is that? Add to that the scenario when an "accident" occurs when you are outside. Goodness me, I would be throwing out a lot of pants at this rate because I cannot imagine having to wash out poo from his pants. Blech....yucks....can I delegate this portion of motherhood to anyone else? Anyone else??? Help!!!
Back to Josiah's potty training, we started out with me putting him on potty. He sat for 5 minutes and then wriggled to get out despite me trying to keep him on longer. He proceeded to wet his pants 5 minutes later. After a change, I reminded myself to ask him to go potty in another 15 minutes, but he had another wet pants before then. By lunchtime, he'd wet 4 pair of pants and had one tantrum because I was asking him to sit on the potty. I also had to ban him from sitting on the sofa or our bed - see how cruel this potty training is..... Mental note to myself to get some blankets for the sofa. Sigh. I am not happy at all.
Just before his nap, I put a nappy on and all was well for the rest of the evening. Shaun is not well and I just couldn't cope with two upset boys. Will try again tomorrow morning.
The upside to this exercise: Saved ONE piece of nappy today. Yay. =.=
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Monday, July 13, 2009
Perfect
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
Food Gallery : The Improvement
I think this looks like "left-over night" with the only fresh food being the fried egg ;)